Choose to chase your dreams
The difference between people living their dreams and you wishing you were out there living your dreams is one thing — choice.
Those people had the guts to make the hard decisions. To take the leap of faith. To plunge into the unknown. And you’re sitting here reading this, wishing you had the guts to do the same thing.
But you absolutely do have the guts to do it.
You have everything you need to succeed at whatever you want. You’re a capable person. And if you don’t have everything you need, you can go out and get it. Learn whatever skill, save money and invest in whatever tools or things are necessary.
You can do it — whatever it is. You have the ability, the drive, and the willpower to do it. You just have to decide that you want it enough to try for it.
Chasing your dreams isn’t an easy thing. It’ll probably be a little uncomfortable for a while. It’ll take some adjusting. Maybe you won’t be an instant success. You might even fail. But what’s the worst thing that could happen if you fail?
You lose some money, lose some confidence. You have to start over again from zero. You have to move back in with your parents. You have to sell some stuff or pick up a second job to make ends meet.
All of these circumstances are temporary and workable.
Seriously think about what the consequences of failure are. Chart out each possible outcome and evaluate if it’s worth the risk of trying and failing. Most of the time, I’ll bet the benefits of going for your dreams outweigh the risks.
What are you so afraid of, anyway?
We are the only ones holding us back. We’re scared of being judged, we’re scared of failing, we’re scared of making a mistake.
But wouldn’t you rather live a messy, beautiful life chasing after what you really want, instead of sitting safe inside your box living a mediocre existence, where you’re fine, but never really happy and always feeling like you’re missing something?
What are we so afraid of, anyway?
It's the thought thats holding us back,Thought of failure,Thought of being judged and thought of making mistake.
What’s the worst that could happen?
Let’s go back to my earlier question — what’s the worst thing that could happen if I fail? What does “failing” even look like in this scenario?
You have to decide what your definition of failure is, and then explore what happens if that scenario comes to pass. Play it out in your head.
What does failure look like? What happens if you fail? What’s the absolute worst thing that could happen as a result of your failure? What will you do next?
When you play out your worst fears, they sometimes turn out to be not that bad. When you look at a situation as problems to be solved instead of “I failed,” it’s more manageable and less soul-crushing.
There are very few things that are irreversible and cannot be fixed. It might take a lot of time or money to fix them or to get back to where you were, but it can happen. It’s not impossible.
No one else needs to approve of your dreams
It’s okay if your life doesn’t look the way other people think it should.
It’s okay to make a decision that others blanche at, or tell you that you’re crazy for doing. As long as you know it’s the right decision for you, that’s all that matters. Why do you need someones approval of your life? You don’t
To make progress, to reach your full potential, to live the life you’ve always dreamed of — you have to get uncomfortable.
You have to choose to chase your dreams — because life will not wait for you.
As I Always Say "WE LIVE ONLY ONCE".Yes we live only once,Once is enough if we do it right.
Happy Learning !!

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